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LOVE DEFINATIONS: VALENTINE SPECIAL..

DEFINATION OF LOVE BY SOME

GREAT MUSICIANS :

Love...such a powerful emotion that has inspired countless artists to paint masterpieces, composers to write unforgettable music and authors to pen bestselling novels. Let's read what some composers, musicians, singers and other music personalities have said about love.

Ludwig van Beethoven
"I can live only wholly with you or not at all.”

Benjamin Britten
"These two are not two, love has made them one. Amo Ergo Sum! And by its mystery each is no less but more."

Ray Charles
"Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap.”

Duke Ellington
"Love is supreme and unconditional; like is nice but limited.”

Ella Fitzgerald
"Just don't give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there is love and inspiration, I don't think you can go wrong."

George Gershwin
"For suddenly, I saw you there
And through foggy London town
The sun was shining everywhere..."

Billie Holiday
"Love is like a faucet, it turns off and on."

Charles Ives
"If a composer has a nice wife and some nice children, how can he let the children starve on his dissonances?"

Alicia Keys
"If I didn't love it, I would not record it."

Carole King
"Do the things you believe in, in the name of love. And know that, you aren't alone. We all have doubts and fears.”

Beyonce Knowles
"There's definitely a dangerous feeling when you're in love--it's giving your heart to someone else and knowing that they have control over your feelings. I know for me, who always tries to be so tough, that's the dangerous thing.”

John Lennon
"We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it."

Sarah McLachlan
"If you love large, you've got to hurt large. If you've got a lot of light, you've probably got an equal amount of darkness."

Gian Carlo Menotti
"I know of no better definition of love than the one given by Proust - Love is space and time measured by the heart.”

Mandy Moore
"Love is like nothing else on this earth, but only when it is shared with someone wonderful like you."

Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart
"Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius."

Franz Schubert
"Some people come into our lives, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same.”

Alexander Scriabin
"In love's God-like breathing, there's the innermost aspect of the universe."

Beverly Sills
"I had found a kind of serenity, a new maturity... I didn't feel better or stronger than anyone else but it seemed no longer important whether everyone loved me or not--more important now was for me to love them. Feeling that way turns your whole life around; living becomes the act of giving."

Igor Stravinsky
"What force is more potent than love?"

Justin Timberlake
“Every relationship I've been in, I've overwhelmed the girl. They just can't handle all the love.”

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50 Good effects of a HUG...

There are only some positive effects of hugging.no negative or side-effect. i am telling you 50 good effects of a hug. So today is Hug Day and you must hug the peoples whom you loves most.....

50 GOOD EFFECTS OF HUGGING :

Hugs can transform a bad day into a good day.
A hug is easier than leapfrog and safer than skydiving.
A hug can heal a heart.
When we are feeling unlovable, a hug can make us feel loved.
A hug can break down barriers that sometimes words cannot do.
Hugs are a great way to strengthen family bonds.
A hug can make you feel safe when you are worried.
Hugs can speak more than any words can say.
We bond with a hug.
Hugs are dryer than most kisses and don’t leave lipstick stains.
Hugs remind us that we are connected to each other.
The hug implies a sense of trust that connects us with others.
Having another person’s arms around us can make us feel unconditionally accepted.
A hug can put a smile on someone’s face.
Hugs are a perfect way to relax.
A loving hug before a tough day could carry you through the challenges.
We can find comfort with a hug.
 Hugs can reduce the harmful physical effects of stress.
Based on the results of research released by Psychosomatic Medicine, a warm hug can release oxytocin, a hormone associated with feelings of love and peace.
Hugs show congratulations when someone tells us good news.
Hugs make you feel warm on a chilly night.
We establish human contact and interaction with a hug.
The beauty of a hug is in its simplicity.
You can never go into debt by giving a hug.
Hugs are simple act of caring and kindness
Hugs can help build a more compassionate world.
Hugs make children feel loved.
Hugs show children that you are there for them.
Hugs make booboos feel better.
Hugs can establish rapport.
Hugs can symbolize that deep, non-broken relationship and to tell the other person that ” No matter how far away we are, we will be together always.
Brigham Young University found that hugging a significant other can help lower high blood pressure.
Hugs let you know that someone is there even when things get sticky.
Hugs are excellent for making up after an argument.
We desire to feel close to others and hugs make us feel close.
When someone is sad, scared, or disappointed, hug can give a sense of comfort and safety
Hugs can be reassuring of one’s love and care.
Hugging is healthier than eating a gallon of ice cream or a bag of Doritos.
A hug is like a handshake from the heart.
Hugs can symbolize the excitement of a moment.
A hugs can welcome you back home.
Hugs promote positive emotions: “Touch affects the cerebellar brain system, an area of the brain where basic positive emotions such as trust and affection probably come from.” Linda Blair
Whether you are short or tall, skinny, or overweight, you can give and receive a hug.
Hugs are great reassurance before going our separate ways.
Hugs can show how much you are missed.
Hugs can show how much someone misses you.
You can have a hug at anytime, even if no one is with you. Hug yourself.
Hugging opens our heart allowing love to radiate out from it
Hugs just feel so good.
________________________________________ This is for you to fill in. Tell me below why you are grateful for hugs below.

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kahani se aage ki kahani...

kahani se aage ki kahani....


Ek feri wale jo topi becha karta tha aur bandron ki kahani to
bachpan mein aap sab logo ne suni hogi. Agar kisi ne nahi suni to ,
mien suna deta hun.
                      "Ek bar ek feri wala topi bech rha tha. Topi
bechte bechte feri wala thak gya .Isliye sram karne ke liye ek pedh
ke neeche beth gya. Us pedh par kafi bandar rehte the. Jab feri wala
so gya to bandaron ne uski sari topiyan nikal kar pehan li aur pedh
par chad gye. Jab feri wale ki neend tooti to ye dekh kar dukhi hua.
par feri wala chalak tha use pta tha ki bandar nakalchi hote hain.
Isliye usne apne sir par pehni utar kar fenk di. Ye dekh kar sare
bandron ne bhi aisa hi kiya . feri wale ne sari topiyan ikkthi ki
aur apne raste chal diya. Bandar bechare use dekhte reh gye..."
                 
                     Ye to thi ab tak ki kahani, ye hum sabne sun
rakhi rakhi thi. Par ye kahani abhi khatam nahi hui. Bollywood movie
ki trah is kahani ka bhi sequel hai. Sun na chaoge,,, To chalo mein
tumhe sunata hun.

               " Ek din us feriwale ka koi pota topiyan bechte bechte
usi pedh ke neeche aa pahuncha.thake hone ki vajah se wo bhi aaram
karne laga .uske sath bhi vahi sab hua. bandaron ne uski sari topiyan
nikal kar pehan li aur pedh par chad gye. jab feriwala jaga to bandron
ko dekh kar hairaan hua. Par usne apne dada se kahani sun rakhi thi ki
kaise usne bandron ko bewkuf banaya tha. usne bhi same trick istmal ki
aur apni topi utar kar fenk di. Par is bar ye dekh kar ek bandar pedh
se utar kar neeche aaya aur feriwale ke kan par ek thappad mara aur bola,
" sale hamare dadaon ki bewkufi wali kahani kya sirf tere dada ne tujhe
sunayi thi kya ?".....Is trah is bar bandar baazi mar gye aur feri wala
dekhta reh gya.
             
    Ye thi kahani se aage ki kahani. Abhi ke liye bas itna hi . Fir milenge
Ek nayi kahani ke saath.
               
                *****bye****      
 

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The magic of first love

“The magic of first love is our ignorance that it will never end.”

You know I thought boys had cooties til I was about 17, right? Up until that point, I viewed them only as despicable creatures sent to this earth as God’s punishment to Eve. It’s possible I fell asleep in a few Bible classes.  I also thought that babies came from swallowing watermelon seeds. I know it might be a bit too precautionary, but I still always buy seedless.

Growing up, all of my other girlfriends were much more advanced in the dating department.  They had “boyfriends” [or whatever the appropriate term would be for the guy that you're not allowed to be in a closed-door room with but cheer for at football games].  They knew all the definitions of the “bases.”  They had someone to send them flowers on carnation day.

Puh-lease.

Like I really wanted a cruddy, half-dead carnation anyway. Lame.  If the school would have hosted lasagna day, it might have been worth the inevitable hassle of claiming one of those smelly boys.  However, twas not my fate.

Then one day… wait a minute.

Hold the phone.

I met a smelly boy that changed everything.

My best friend set us up. I believe her exact words were: “There are two guys at my school that would be perfect for you.” They both had brown hair and blue eyes according to the very detailed description of important details that was provided for me.  So I opted for the one who was “more funny.”  Of course, she had accidentally started dating the other one before I had a chance to meet either of them, so I guess I didn’t really have a choice.

BLUNT FACT: If ever given an option between two of anything, Blunt will always choose funny. Especially if the other options have anything to do with condiments, seafood, clowns, the Southwest, animals that bark, animals that shed, or Neil Diamond. But really, on a scale of 1–> infinity, how sick are we of the Neil Diamond references?

And on a scale of 1–> not a chance, what do you think is the possibility of me stopping?

So we met and instantly fell into premature love with reckless abandon. We ended up dating for 4 years. He was the sort of guy who would drive an hour to bring me a cough drop.  Or flowers on a Tuesday.

My Senior year, I was home sick and there was a snowstorm.  He was broke, as is the fate of every unemployed high school boy who grossly underestimates the cost of having a girlfriend.  He drove to my house and handed me a bouquet of sticks.  He said he’d picked them outside of school and he hoped that 1) he wouldn’t get another in-school suspension and 2) it would cheer me up.

I’m not one for sentimental crap, but to this day that is still my most favorite gift. I kept them in the back window of my car until I got in my accident and they were lost among the wreckage.

That breakup was one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through.  He was my first boyfriend, I was his first girlfriend.  I was crazy about him and he cherished me. We were best friends.  The breakup strung out for two torturous years because neither of us could fully let go. I could say that I had my reasons for leaving him, but the truth is – I was too young and immature to appreciate him.  We were so young that I never thought he would grow up. It was a classic case of bad timing.

I’ve never stopped thinking about him.  We had stayed in touch until before I left for London.  I had previously refused his attempts to get back together, but while I was in London, I truly missed him. I tried contacting him after I returned, thinking that maybe we had both come to the point where we could make it work.  I then discovered he had gotten married two weeks before I came back.

Three years went by.  He had moved. I had heard bits and pieces of how he was doing, but his wife forbade him from speaking to me.  I desperately hoped that he was happy.

Then, one day, I was answering calls at the bank and I heard his voice on the other line.

It was good to hear his voice.

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